marriages u attend

just came back after attending a wedding reception of a very good friend
really happy for my friend , but the evening left me a lot desired
In most of marriage functions the Bride and groom stand there putting their best face forward
But if marriage is a celebration then it seems that it is about the food , the jewellery , the clothes and loud blaring music which keeps the neighbours in locality jagte raho

If it is your friend' wedding should'nt u actually spend some time rather than people
coming----standing in a queue ----- introduction ----photo shoot (70mm)----- gifts
can't it be made more lively and informal , Bride and groom are dressed in easy to move clothes
they enjoy some time with friends recall those moments , people coming uo and narrating some good , some embarrasing moments of that person
and of course have a party........