after living about 8 and .5 yrs outside home in hostel , PG etc one gets used to a particular life style which has to be described in one word is " BINDASS"
under is bindass bazi will be watching late night movies , ordering pizza on impulse , lying around in bed for eternity , delaying bath on holidays , spending more time out of home in coffee shops , book shops , malls ....
having said all this i will not call it irresponsible attitude , but more of instinctive life style
coming back to home is quite a sobering experience it can be best summarised by song " hum tum song where rani complains about boy's attitude "
it is those small things like
wear slippers
comb hair
wear sweater while going out ( i am in delhi and it is dec)
time pe so jayo..
and absolute trivial ...what time u reached office , bus time pe mili...., kahan pahunche ho i agree these are all concerns of any parent and may be in their child' best interest , but doing all this means u cushion the fall of ur kid this world
u do not let him develop his own a sense of the world and leave him dependent on them
a parent is a mentor , a friend ..... making parents understand is very difficult
.....to be contd
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